Have you ever had your absolute certainty shattered, and if not that, then shaken and trembling?

This can happen in moments of recognition that ones loved one is having an affair, even though no signs of trouble had warned you. Or the friend you could always trust suddenly stabs you into the back. It can even go so far as to come shattering down onto you that you are NOT the center of THE universe but only the center of your OWN universe and that the combined reality of our reality might heavily disagree with what you know and believe.

Thus confronted you might begin to doubt your abilities into seeing and knowing. The question opens to an array of possibilities: was it delusion, fixation, non-facing of the clearly visible facts, hope or plain inability to read the signs?

Do not forget: it is just a game.

If you find yourself in disbelief of the physical results when the cards had told you such a different story, over and over again - realize then that :

1. you have taken the game too seriously and have become the effect of it.
2. have not kept enough faith and the tides will still turn.
3. your strong wish made you pick what you wanted to see and not what is.
4. you have not learned enough to see what is laid before you.
5. you willingly misread the signs.
6. none of the above: it’s all just chance and you trying to make sense out of it failed.

… take your pick.